[ESTJ] ESTJ and INFJ match?
This section INFJ-ESTJ relationship is about how these two personality types come together in a relationship. From my interaction with ISTJs, we are quite compatible to a certain extent, but I find I think the main problems for ESTJ-INFJ relationship are. INFJ and ESTJ – Compatibility, Relationships, and Friendships The INFJ seeks to understand patterns and underlying meanings behind.
This universal acceptance of logic is used to help the ESTJ form their worldview. Judging and Judging Two judgers will want their worlds to be ordered and planned out. They would like to know what they are doing beforehand. These judgers will both appreciate each others structure and valuing being on time.
However, they can both become stubborn and may clash with each other over which direction to take.
ESTJ pursuing a relationship with an INFJ : infj
The INFJ prefers structure, routine, and planning things out versus being spontaneous. The INFJ wants to bring structure, order, and harmony to their environment. The ESTJ prefers structure, routine, and planning things out versus being spontaneous. The ESTJ wants to bring structure, order, and organization to their environment. In their minds it's a trade off for "allowing" you to be the "way" you are in other aspects of your relationship.
This is very hard to convey in a public forum and off the cuff. I'll give you a simple example of an everyday situation that represents how their power plays work, where you have to hold your own in regard to their "my way is the right and superior way I was fixing supper, it was hot as hell outside, so, I planned to grill chicken on the inside grill, it was already out, warming up on the counter.
He walked into the kitchen and straight out the back door without saying a word and lit the outside grill. I asked what he was doing,"I'm going to cook those outside" I said, "I'm cooking them inside, I am making supper and this is the way I choose to cook them, when you cook supper, you can do it your way.
I stood my ground I won the chicken war This approach works in many, many situations. It's against my nature to be confrontational as well, but you have to choose your "battles" and this is a necessity, it will even out the balance of power in which they believe they have the upper hand.
INFJ and ESTJ – Compatibility, Relationships, and Friendships
I know, sounds like a game of Risk It is what I have come to refer to as the "fatal blow tactic", a multi purpose technique intended to hit where it hurts Sometimes it takes a minute or two to recoup, but you have to immediately stand your ground while being the rational, humane one.
Never, ever let this go Very important, it is in their minds the "final word", the ESTJ has spoken!!! Yours is equally valid and important. You just don't happen to be willing to stoop to a soul wound to make your point. I call him on his egotistical ways and on occasion force him to introspect on the reasons behind them one of his weaknesses.
I shed light and perspective into his very regimented way of being.
It's all give and take, to read this, you would think he's Hitler. In truth, he is a wonderful, wonderful man. Extroversion-Introversion Joys Are attracted by each other's difference in energy levels.
Extroverts appreciate the calm and steady demeanor of the Introvert, while Introverts enjoy the hearty and bubbly Extrovert. Extrovert enjoys that there is an active listening ear in the Introvert, always ready to listen to his thoughts and rants.
Introvert enjoys that the Extrovert takes social leadership in most occasions, connecting them to new friends and people that they otherwise would be too shy to approach. Struggles Extroverts, however, may find that the Introvert is too quiet and communicates too little with nothing to share. They may feel Introverts are boring, or just disinterested in talking to them. Introverts may find that Extroverts are too loud and talk too much without listening to them.What Types Are Socially Compatible With ESTJs?
An Introvert may feel neglected and unheard by Extroverts because they will only share if asked - and Extroverts usually don't ask. On the weekends, Extroverts enjoy heading out for social activities or other high stimulation activities to relax while Introverts prefer staying home or at the most have some quiet activity with close friends. This difference in preference will sometimes lead to dissatisfaction. Sensing-Intuition Joys Sensors enjoys the insightful and brilliant Intuitive and seeing things from a big picture, strategic perspective relative to theirs.
Sensors are also likely fascinated by the outlandish imagination of the Intuitive; with big dreams and visions. Intuitives will appreciate the Sensors attention to detail in everyday living; Sensors bring Intuitives down to earth to common sense.